And yes, I have lost a few pounds since these videos were recorded.
This first video is about stage fright. I explain where it comes from and how to eliminate it. Public speaking is just like any other skill in that if you try the skill and have success, you gain confidence. If you try a skill and have a failure, you get nervousness. That's one of the reasons why we suggest that you get a good coach during the learning process. A good speaking coach can help make sure that you have a series of successes so that your confidence grows.
A Few Tips to Reduce Presentation Fear
In this video, I give a summary of what used to be the opening session of the 2-day Fearless Presentations® class. In the video, I cover a few tips to help people reduce nervousness. I cover things like realizing that most of that nervousness that we feel on the inside doesn't show as much to the audience. You should also never try to write our speech word-for-word. If you do, you'll likely just want to read it. In addition, don't try to memorize a canned speech. It will just make you more nervous if you lose your train of thought. A bunch more tips are on the video. Enjoy!
Can Toastmasters Actually Cause Fear
Oh my God, I got so much hate mail after this one. Please, if you are a Toastmasters fan, realize that so am I. All I was trying to say in this video is that since each Toastmasters group has different membership and different leadership, some clubs are better than others. The analogy that I use is learning to play golf. If you go to a golf pro for lessons, you will be learning from a skilled professional who has already succeeded in the skill that you want to develop. You'll likely get better results than if you go ur with five of your "hacker" buddies and try to coach each other. (I think that last wisecrack was what ticked off the Toastmaster people. Sorry.)
How to Prepare a PowerPoint Presentation
This is a quick overview of how to design a presentation in a way that will make you less nervous. What most people do is start with their PowerPoint slideshow. They create slides and bullets for every single thing that they want to speak about. Then, they will try to speak about what is on the slides. That is backward. It is much easier to create the presentation first. Then, after you have a great presentation, decide what visual aids you will need to help you explain the content. If you prepare for your talks in this way, if something happens and your slideshow crashes, you can still perform in a confident way.
Show Up Early for Your Presentations
This tip is a very practical way to reduce fear just before you speak. Show up early. The last thing in the world that you want to be doing before a presentation is to be rushing into the room unprepared. Show up early. Network with your audience. (This will help you customize the content better.) In addition, it gives you an opportunity to make sure that all of your visual aids are in order.
A few years ago, I was training an instructor, and we were to speak in the morning at a conference. We got a hotel that was .2 miles away from the office building according to the booking website. We ended up to get to our hotel pretty late at night, and since the meeting location was so close, we didn't really bother to scout out the building the night before. We just got up a little early so we'd have plenty of time to get there. The instructor that I was training had just purchased a GPS, so he was anxious to use it (this was before GPS' were built into our phones.) When he plugged the address in, though, the location was showing our destination on the freeway service road on the same side of the freeway from us. Consequently, we had to go across the overpass, get on the freeway, go down to the next exit, and come back up the service road that our hotel was on.
We weren't really worried, because it was really close. However, we crossed the overpass. I got onto the freeway and hit a bunch of traffic. Time ticked away, and we were basically at a standstill. After being in the traffic for 20 minutes, I started to get a little worried. We had left the hotel for about an hour before our speech, and now 25 minutes had passed. Then 30. Then 35. We eventually drove on the service road to get to the next exit, cross over, and turn back on the service road that we had originally come from. When we got to the destination, it was just an open field. I looked about 100 yards in front of us, though, and I saw our hotel and a big shiny building on the other side of it. (It was in the same parking lot... We could have walked.)
We went rushing into meeting sweating bullets. As I began setting up my computer, I looked at the clock. We were still there about 15 minutes before our start time, but the entire audience was already there. So they saw us setting up. I have never felt more pressure before class. If you want to avoid challenges like this, show up early!
Effective Business Presentation Skills will Make You Money
One of the secrets of most highly successful people is their ability to communicate their ideas with confidence. Potential class members sometimes ask us if they can expect to get a big return on their investment if they attend a training program like ours. We always tell them, "YES!" People who can communicate with power and conviction are often seen by others to be leaders in their industries. A good example is a surgeon. Let's say you have to have minor surgery. Just before you go under anesthesia, the surgeon comes into your hospital room and is wishy-washy. As the surgeon speaks to you, you see his hands shake a little. Are you going to get a second opinion? Of course, you would. Guess what? That is the type of impression we are giving to our audiences as well if we are nervous speakers. The good news is, though, we know of a place where you can conquer this fear!
Should I Travel to Attend a Public Speaking Course
Should I Travel Out of Town to Attend a Training Seminar? Doug Staneart is a keynote speaker from Dallas and CEO of The Leader's Institute. In this video, he shows how to determine if your return on investment from attending a training program out of town is large enough to justify the expense of the travel. The advantages of traveling out of town are that you are less distracted and can focus on the material being taught in the program better. You also get to capitalize on the skills developed in the training program much FASTER. A small investment in travel can generate higher incomes for the rest of your life.
Poke Fun If You Like, But These Early Videos Helped Us Grow into a Big Company
I look back on these vintage videos, and I laugh a little now. So go ahead and poke fun at me if you like. However, these early videos were what allowed us to reach the masses and start helping people eliminate public speaking fear. Now that I think about it, I wished that we had created more. For nostalgia purposes, obviously.
By the way, if you'd like to see the entire list of old videos, you can access our old YouTube channel by going to our old YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/user/tldgxqx19/.
Ah, the old days.